As soon as you have decided what web site to place your profile on, you will receive letters immediately. You will also get invites for video chat every time you log on. Agency’s will send form letters out to new and active members. They are supposed to only send letter from lady’s who are searching for a profile similar to yours. The goal is to get you to visit the agency as they believe once there they can find you a suitable partner. The truth is in a lot of cases more often then not they are successful.
Chances are the she has not seen your profile and will not know what you look like until you arrive. Most are to busy to stop in the agency and view the profile of every man who writes them. Very few men who write to a foreign lady ever actually show up. The way it works is the agency will call the lady tell her what your letter says and then get her response.
So now you have made contact with a few prospective candidates, it is time to weed thru the ones who are not serious. Here are a few things to look for when writing your new found friend. Those who have a little knowledge of this type of dating call these red flags. If a lady professes she loves you in just a few letters move on. If she asks for money delete her email’s, never ever send money. If you receive a letter about a dream she had of the two of you together might be a red flag. If she will not give her contact information this could be a red flag also. If she does not answer your questions in her email this could be a red flag. most know that if you do show up and meet them they will spend some money on them for things like flowers dinner out and maybe excursions to local venues.
Now that you know a little about the letter writing the next post in our series will be preparing to meet your new found friend.